Oct. 5, 2025

You are so warm one day, my life is full of color. My body is tired but my soul is full of strength. I can accomplish anything. I smile at you because you smile at me.

But the next day you turn so cold. I feel alone, I lose hope. I feel vulnerable, I don’t have the courage to face the long night. I lose the strength to survive yet another long day alone.

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